The Vixen Thinks: Unpopular Opinions About Sponsored Posts?


The Vixen Thinks is an almost weekly feature on this blog. Posts vary in topic, I'll talk about anything I have an opinion on! From blogging to relationships to feminism and anything beyond. If there's anything you'd like me to write about, feel free to get in touch: theglittervixen(at)gmail(dot)com! Thank you!

It has been a while since I had the pleasure of joining in with a Twitter chat like #lbloggers or #bbloggers. I do occasionally scroll through Twitter when a chat is taking place, and I've noticed that sponsored posts and earning money from blogging are frequent and hot topics. Generally, I see one of two views: first you get the "you should do blogging for the love of it! Blogging for money is evil!"camp. You then get the "there's nothing wrong with sponsored posts, just make sure it fits your blog" type people. Now, I don't really agree with either of these camps entirely...

I am all for blogging for money. If you start a blog and your intention from the very beginning is to make money from it, then go for it. If you just want a new hobby, go for that. If you want a new hobby and hope to earn a little money in the progress, yeah, you guessed it, I'm fine with it. It's your blog.

I understand a lot of people reading blogs about a certain topic don't want to see a random sponsored post in there. I get that ads littered all over a page isn't exactly nice. However, the beauty of blogs is you can click that little 'x' in the right hand corner and never even think about a blog again if it offends you that much. At the end of the day, it's the decision of the blogger what goes on their blog. Now what they want might not get them readers, but really, what concern is that of yours, seriously?

I'm pretty sure I once saw someone moaning about seeing a review about a lawnmower on a beauty blog. It might have been exaggeration, I'm not sure. Thing is, I thought about this, and I realised I wouldn't care. When I'm scrolling through the BlogLovin app on my phone, if I see a post I'm not interested in, I mark it as read and I move onto the next. I genuinely don't understand why the things people choose to write about on their blog has suddenly become such an issue! There are very few blogs out there where I want to read every single post, so if a blogger you normally like does an off topic post one day that just happens to earn them a bit of money, why does it cause so much outrage?

Personally, I think this all stems from something that I believe is at the root of most of life's problems. It's that little green eyed monster called Jealousy. I think a lot of bloggers get annoyed that other bloggers make money and they don't so they attack attack attack. I also think there's a little bit of fear in there too: people really, really resist the idea that there's other ways to earn money besides going to work. Believe me, as an Arbonne Independent Consultant I realise this a lot more now. People are so stuck in their little routines, the belief that the only way to have money is to work for someone else, that it's good and admirable to do this, that when someone comes along and changes the status quo, they get really scared and defensive. 

Anyway, I got a little heavier there than I intended to. Really, blogging is meant to be fun. It has come a long way since our secret little diaries on LiveJournal and it's so amazing watching it develop. I love my blog because it's mine. In fact, now I'm a journalist and write three articles a day that I have very little choice over, I love coming home and writing about whatever I want even more. Stop trying to take that away from people! If you don't like their blog, don't read it, but don't tell them what they can and can't do on THEIR blog.

Oh, and one last note: this isn't some defensive post from a blogger who writes sponsored posts about "questionable" topics - in fact I turn down every offer for sponsored posts I get and rarely accept products for review, so hush ;)

Anyone out there feel the same way?



B. Pure Micellar Water [Product Review]


Having tried around four "different" micellar waters now, I feel like I've realised they're all pretty much the same product in different bottles with slightly different scents and wildly different prices. I was fascinated by Bioderma when it first started appearing on blogs but could never bring myself to source any. The first I tried was by Vichy but I found its price a little eye watering despite really liking the product. When the B. brand launched just over a year ago, the micellar water was the first thing I got excited about and it became the second ever micellar water I ever tried.

First of all, this is a very purse friendly product. At full price it will set you back £4.99 which isn't bad at all but it's usually on offer anyway!

This really is a very pure feeling product, I don't remember it having any sort of smell to it at all. It genuinely felt like water on my face yet still managed to remove my facial makeup with ease.

And yet...it isn't perfect. In fact it has one problem with it that means I doubt I'll ever pick this up again. It stung my eyes like crazy, and sadly, I've read other reviews which say the same.

To me, the whole point of micellar waters is as a very gentle, yet effective pre-cleanser, mainly for eye makeup removal purposes. If I can't use a micellar water around my eyes comfortably, then I can't use it at all.

This really is such a shame, because I love every other product I've tried by B.!

Have you tried this micellar water? Which micellar water is your favourite?


WIWIW #1: Deep Night

WIWIW #1: Deep Night


Hello everyone! Today I am introducing a new feature to the blog: What I Wish I Wore, OR, WIWIW. The premise behind this is simple, I will just post a Polyvore set featuring an outfit I wish I was wearing. My reasoning behind this? Well...I'm a very silly girl who has moved house and forgotten to bring her camera, which sadly means outfit posts are definitely on hold for the time being. I decided rather than let the style side of my blog disappear completely, I'd feature some outfits I really do wish I could wear. It gives me a reason to window shop, and not to mention, today's offering satisfies my need to get away from the conservative world of work wear!

The main item in today's WIWIW post is the Motel Moon and Stars Playsuit. I first clapped eyes on this on another blogger and it was love at first sight. I'm really into witchy style fashion at the moment - gemstone jewellery, prints with moons, stars, the sun etc. I think starting my new job has only fueled this new fascination. While initially I was so excited to have my little wardrobe of work appropriate clothes, I currently only have work clothes, and believe me, it gets old, fast.

Currently, there's only one way I want to wear this playsuit. Although I've featured black creepers here, if when I get round to owning this playsuit, it'll be with my creepers which are actually grey. The best way to finish a little witchy outfit off is of course with a deep purple lipstick. I'm tempted by Lime Crime's Poisonberry but in real life it'd probably be Topshop Inhibition I went with because I already own it! I've got an Xtras nail polish too that looks very similar to the one pictured.

Having thought about this...I think my Doc Martens would look pretty wicked too.

What do you think of this new addition to The Glitter Vixen?